Question #1:

Is this a bad reason to break up with someone?

We're great together. Not a match made in heaven, but it's not the sort of relationship that I could just cut loose from and forget about. But something's beginning to wear me to the bone.
She's always busy. We used to meet every weekday afternoon, and on weekends every now and then. But now that the school year is over, it's like I never see her. It's not all her fault, either. Her parents are competitive about her schedule, and she'll be gone on vacations and road trips for days on end. But when she has free time, she puts her best friend first and completely obliterates her schedule. I haven't talked to her in person for weeks! So what do I do? This constant loneliness is driving me insane, and the only way out I can see is to break up. So what should I do?

Question #2:

christian women are weak by trusting they're husbands?

okay..so here is the deal..I keep hearing all this stuff about how bad it is that the bible states that women should be submissive to they're husbands..people without understanding keep harping on this and its driving me crazy. Because for the most part..they have it all wrong, and they are unwilling to listen to what the bible really says on the subject. Its either complete ignorance, or they know the truth but still want to keep spreading unwarranted lies. So here is the deal, I'm a christian, and I'm a christian wife to a christian husband. Here is what that means...my husband is a god fearing man who trusts in the Lord for everything, he follows Jesus and Jesus' teachings. Which means..he is very very trustworthy. He is very loving, and he is very giving. In my opinion..if you cannot trust a man absolutely, then you should not be marrying him to begin with people. God intended marriages to work in this avenue..two people who trust in him and follow in him, without that...then yes a marriage where you do not have a Godly man where he expects his wife to be submissive will fail. the marriages we see today are not what God intended. God intended the marriages to be those by men who trusted in him and kept his commandments along with a wife who does the same, as well as trusting in her husband the same way she trusts in the lord. Hence the scripture...Wives submit to your husbands as the church submits to christ..and husbands, love your wives as Jesus loved the church. The bible as states...wives submit to your husbands...and husbands submit to your wives. Its not all about women being subservient,...its not about us losing our rights, nor our feminism. So here is the deal, I chose wisely, I made sure not to even consider marriage to any man unless I truly trusted him with everything. And my husband has never betrayed that trust. I used to work, and with the birth of our first child I chose to stay home. I realize not many women have this option, due to finances, etc. But we did, and while I enjoyed work, I could not stand the thought of my 6 week old baby being in daycare from 8am till 6pm, after all...I had her, she was my baby, shouldn't I be raising her? So what did this mean? after all, we had just bought our first house, and had two car payments.....things were tight. It meant my husband working longer hours and stressing more than he had before, because now it wasn't just him and me, but there was this precious little baby to feed and clothe, to take care of. Don't get me wrong, he had a wonderful job, so bills were paid, but for a while, the extra we had before was not there. But ....I was a stay at home mom now, and before we both worked, we both cleaned the house, we both took care of things together. But now, I was home and he was not. So here is what I want to put to you...for 10 years I had a job, with a boss, that boss was at one time a woman and at another time a man. That boss told me when I had to be to work, which meant in a round about way..that boss told me when I had to get up, they told me when I could have my break, which meant? they told me when I could eat. and since they made the rules on how long my lunch break was..they pretty much had control over when I would stop eating. They told me when my work day was over, which meant they were telling me when I could return home. And what did I do? I made sure I followed all those rules, to ensure I kept my job. But when I began to stay home? well..my husband never told me when to wake up, he never told me when to eat, he never told me how long I had to eat and he never told when I could or could not go somewhere. And yet..we fight against following our husbands. We'll bend over backwards to make it to a job and to follow the laws of a boss..who could care less if you get laid off tomorrow, but to be submissive to our husbands..is wrong? then why did we marry them? why does making sure our husbands are loved and cared for, and taken care of, mean that we are weak? do we not make sure our bosses are happy? do we not make sure to be commited fully to our jobs? so why then does doing so for a marriage mean bad things? my husband gets up at 5am to go to work 2 hours away and returns home at 9pm. I've never had to worry about our bills, or food, or clothes, or christmas or foreclosures or doctors or even the occasional vacations..so then why should I not ensure that at 5am he has clean clothes to wear? that he has a meal to eat when he comes home..a clean house to come home to that he works his ass off for? why should I not tell him he is the best? and make him feel good about himself? why should I not stroke his ego to let him know how much I appreciate him..I can tell you doing so has paid me off more than any job paycheck ever did. but I'm weak? it sounds to me like maybe instead some just weren't very smart in who they chose to marry.
hannah what is controlling about a husband and wife having mutual submission, love and respect?..what would be controlling about my husband being so wonderful to me, that yes..when he needs something I am there to help him? how is that controlling? if that is controlling then what would be the point of marriage?
nunya..I'm not really complaining, but I'm very tired of coming in here and reading about how it is weak for me to follow what God says about a marriage between a husband and a wife, I'm a very tired of hearing how by doing so, I am controlled, I am weak, I am antifeminist..its ridiculous..I mean..why then do women get married? if they cannot trust they're husbands be fully commited to them?
exactly jiloth..and am I right in saying that could not work if your wife did not trust you completely? am I not right in saying that if a woman cannot trust her husband completely in order to allow him to take the husband role, then she should not be marrying him in the first place? I dont know about anyone else, but I sure dont want to marry a man I cannot rely on.
I totally agree lindy...and God's scenario does not always come to be..there are many men out there who abuse what they read and hear, and that is unfortunate, and I advocate divorce in those situations..strongly, my mother was such a woman and I prayed everyday she would leave my father, he was not a godly man, but would use what her bible had to say against her. so yes..there are scenarios where men abuse what is written, but that doesn't mean every situation is the same. Andy stanley is the pastor of the church we attend and he recently had a fantastic service on this exact subject..he said falling in love is easy, staying in love takes a plan, but both have to be in on the marriage, both have to be in on each other, you can find him at northpoint.org..he has alot of other great sermons on a whole host of things that are great.
follows Jesus..there was a verse I read a long long time ago, that always stayed wtih me, but I can't find it now..but it basically talked about the bedroom aspects of marriage..and if I remember correctly it was in the old testament and it stated something about the wife and husband submitting to each other in such things..it mostly related to bedroom areas, but we use it for our entire marriage as much as possible. but it basically was talking about how sometimes wives may refuse to make love with they're husbands when they are mad, and vice versa, and what God was basically saying was...don't make the wedge further, forgive each other, submit to each other..love each other..but I can't remember the exact book I read that in the old testament.

Question #3:

Zach and Lukes Question of the day.. will you miss oh dang lets bang?

when she is on vacation even though she is mean and calls people fat

Question #4:

Why do i feel like the only one that is taking care of my four month old twin boys?

My husband is a Lawyer and i am a Rn i have been on maternity leave as well as using my vacation time. So i can spend time with them and just love and adore them. And well anyways i feel like i am doing all the work because bye the time my husband gets home they are in bed asleep. And at night when they wake up screaming and crying he wont even get up to help me. And when i try and have us time he just says he is too tired and goes to sleep. He has not even been acknowledging the twins lately. He has barley even recognized me lately, and when i try to talk to him he just blows up at me and starts screaming and then he starts to cry. And he tells me it is all too much and he feels so helpless right now. I don't know what to do, Advice?

Question #5:

Teen Runners: Parent Restrictions and mileage?

I am a xc and track runner for 2 going on 3 years.
The longest I have run is 13 miles.
I usually run on flat and rocky terrain/ dry and hot
this week I am running on flat grassy/ humid and hot
My grandma has run for MANY years, and had her knees replaced
I want to run 10 miles for my long run tommorow
I have only ran up to 6 this week
Last week my long run was 9 miles.
My mom only wants me to run 5 or 6 miles
What should I do?
I really really want to!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh, and I want to increase each week 1 mile till I got to 15 miles
My mom is worried, and says I am not going to be able to run in a few years
How can I convince her.
(If I don't run 10 tommorow, then I cannot run 15 by the end of my summer vacation)
Please help!!!! It is very urgent.
(P.S. How can convince her I am being o.k. PLEASE!)

Question #6:

When do you go back to school?

for those of you who are on summer vacation I am aware not all of us are
and when did you get off
LOL нɑsн sliɴɢiɴɢ slɑsнᴇʀ me too! I start school September 9th on my 18th birthday :(

Question #7:

Passport Ds 3053/Ds 11?

My son is going to Korea on vacation to visit his dad, and his passport just expired. In order to renew it, they said I had to have both parents or turn in DS 3053 and Ds 11. Are you able to fax these, because he leaves in 1 week and sending it through express mail may take more than 1 week. Also, how long does it take to expediate your passport through the passport agency in Los Angeles?


Thank you.

Question #8:

Would this be legal for a US Citizen?

Okay I'm a US citizen. If I'm legal drinking age in Canada and I'm on vacation there could i buy liquor and drink legally.
even if i show them a US drivers license?
that says im 18

Question #9:

how old do you think a kid should be to own a rabbit?

I'm 13 years old and I have always showed an interest in rabbits since I was in 1st grade. But my sister and I asked for a dog, and my parents finally said yes and so we got a dog before I went into 3rd grade. Well I love my dog but I think I can handle a rabbit, too. Its not like I'm bored of my puppy (well he's not exactly a puppy anymore) because I like to play with him and walk him in the park, but I also am interested in a rabbit. How old do you think a kid should be to own a rabbit? I will take full responsibility of him/her. And when I'm at a sleepover or something, I have a couple friends or my sister can watch after him while I'm gone. I don't leave on vacation a lot, anyway. Also, what are some tips on convincing my parents that I am ready for a rabbit? I think I am mature enough because i do my homework, make my bed, load/unload the dishwasher, etc. Thanks sorry its long!

Question #10:

my back tooth broke what should i do? i am going on vacation for 2 months should i get it treated right away?

well please help me

Question #11:

Paid vacation for the Babysitter??

My cousins wife watches my 4 yr old twins on weds, thurs, fri from 130-930PM. We pay her $240/wk which works out to $10/hr. She has been watching them since November. I never pay her for a holiday or when she asks for the day off. I will pay her if I call out sick and stay or home or if there father is off. I told her a month ago that I am off today 7/3 for the holiday. I paid her for weds and thurs and today she called me because she feels that she should be paid for the day. I dont, she isnt working why should she get paid! She said she would have worked today but we our both off today, I want to spend time with the kids.She said that unless she cancels she should get paid for the day. Should I have paid her for today? Also, I have 2 weeks vacation left for the year, if I take off and let her know in advance as I always do, should I pay her?
I guess I pay her the 10/hr mostly because of the hours. its 130PM-930PM and its for 2 four year olds.

Question #12:

Help, my mom is being a b*tch!?

I'm 18 years old. I never have done anything bad growing up, like partying drinking drugs,etc. I want to go on vacation with my boyfriend for one week. I am paying ofr it out of my own pocket of my hard earned money. My sister is 5 years older than me. When she was 19 she went to Florida with her friend 3 times, she went to alabama with one friend when she was 20. And when she was 22 went to Aruba and Bermuda. My mom had no problem with this. It's not fair to me, she's preventing me going on vacation telling me she will kick me out of the house if I go. It's so unfair, especially since I've never given her a reason not to trust me. This is my last summer to really take a vacation because after this, I'm going to college and working full time. I just really want to have a good time. She mainly doesn't want me to go because she is afraid we will have sex and I will get pregnant. We've already had sex, but she doesn't know.

It's like she only wants me to be an adult when it comes to paying her room and board, and paying my own bills. But anything that I actually want to do for fun, with my OWN money, I can't. And she lays a huge guilt trip on me or threatens me (like kicking me out of the house).

It's only driving me further away from her, how do I get her to trust me?
My mom said it's because my sister went with her FRIENDS and not BOYFRIEND.

But in all honesty, it's not like she didn't hook up with guys on her vacation. I know for a fact that she did, and my mother's being retarded not thinking that she did.

Question #13:

Do you think Yahoo Answers went downhill?

I returned here yesterday after a 3 month vacation due to frustrations with the site. It wasn't this bad 3 months ago. What's your opinion on the site?

Question #14:

Going to Disney World in 2 weeks! when i arrive will i get "mickey ears"?

Im so excited! when we get to our room (the Wilderness lodge) will there be mickey ears for us? im asking because when we booked the vacation, they asked for everyones name in our party. Also, when the Gosselins went they got some with their names on them. Did they get them just because they are considered celebrities? just wondering. I went when i was 2 and dont remeber anything
Thanks!

Question #15:

Can i go biking with a sore throat?

i had a sore throat since sunday and today its not that bad but still hurts and i am going on vacation this sunday, i want to go to a bike park really badly, would it be okay if i go?

Question #16:

he kissed his girl while looking at me..WHY would he do that =[?

i have been liking this polish guy for a long time now but we never talk ..last year i went out of state for vacation and when i come back i realize that he has a girlfriend..so one day i was outside in front of my house and he lives across the street so his girl comes out and he behind her..when he realized that i was outside he ran up to the girla and started making out with her and she had her back to me and he was facing me he tilt his head and he was looking at ME while kissing HER..and he KNOWS i like him! whyy did he do tht?!

also one day i had my front door open and i was inside sitting on my chair facing out side and i saw him and his girl walk by holding hands he knew i was sitting there so once he passed my house he stopped her and made out with her..and i know he did it cuz he knew i was watching him..but Y?
after 2 weeks i never saw that girl again..

Question #17:

Please convince me I could live in London?

Serious work and personal reasons will make me move to London in a month. I don't like London and England in general, mostly it depresses me with the awful food, terrible weather, nasty people and everything being so overpriced. Yet I must go for a year or more and can't do anything about it. So please tell me what you think is nice about the place, something good to look forward to and get me motivated.Ten year ago I stayed in London for a month when I was 17 years old (went on a class vacation). My stay there was horrible. I got terrible ill from drinking the water there. Almost starved there because the food tasted like the flavor had been extracted from it. Btw, I'm from Chicago,IL. Hell I don't even know what hair salon to go to. My long hair is my pride and joy.


The serious reasons I'm considering moving to London : the person i love and really want to be with is working and living 45min from London, I made him accept the job as I thought it was a good opportunity and told him I was going to accept a position in London.
Back then I was enthusiastic about finally getting to be with him and maybe a little too optimistic about the pay, now it seems I wont be paid more than 10k. Im not totally uninterested in the job but mainly Im just following a boyfriend there, and wont probably be able to afford the 45min train ride either...ahhh Im just so scared really

Question #18:

Are there wall chargers for an iPod touch?

I am thinking of buying an iPod touch, but am going on vacation soon. I need a way to charge it other than plugging it into the computer. (I have no laptop). Can this be done? Are there other ways to charge?

Question #19:

Do you have facebook? For my contacts..?

This question is specifically for my contacts. Do you have facebook? If so, add me.... Click Here

I would love to actually be able to put a real face with the person, rather than an avatar! :oP If you don't want to participate, then don't... but I know that some of my friends have facebook / myspace. I have a few on myspace but am finding that Im now using facebook a little more, and updating pictures and such ..a little more than myspace! :o) Id love to see you on FB!! :D

---Also, any new bfps... and new news? I went to my 16 week appointment yesterday, although I as 15w4d.. (went early due to vacation next week)... and we got a date for our BIGG scan.. it's July 30th. I absolutely cannot wait! :D
Thanks honey. :o) I'll keep my fingers crossed for you & am sending you lots and lots of baby dust! :o)

We're headed to Myrtle Beach, SC. This is my first time going there. Andrews been there before though. We rented a house with his Mom and Stepdad. And alot of my family will be down there also on vacation so it should definitely be a great vacation! :o)

Ive never heard of Bebo..Sorry! :(
Thanks girl. I found you on Myspace. :oP My main reason for using Facebook more is that they unblocked it at work and I don't have the internet at home (I live where the only thing you can get is dial up.. lol That's WV for youu).. I do get on myspace on my phone though :)

Question #20:

How can I have peace on the job, when I return after vacation is over?

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